I feel the need to vent
on this particular topic so please bear with me. I don’t think that I have ever
vented before so this may be a first. I’ve opined on many occasion, observed on
more, yet participated on all, and been the recipient of many a situation,
circumstance, happening, event, happenstance, over the course of this entertaining
ride we’ve been on. But I digress.
When someone takes credit
for things, like the work you did, the theories that you disproved, the options
you made available, or even the ideas to solve the problems that the company
asked you to solve. It kind of burns inside to the point that the diplomacy
valve in my brain refuses to engage and function properly. This is not new to
me yet seems to be a surprise to some of the people who claim to know me. Go
figure.
The thing that was the
cause of all of this was the fact that a co-worker not only took credit for my
ideas, (a situation that was almost swallowable) until this chucklehead decided
to gloat about it in front of me. Great big smile on his face. Are you kidding
me? Not only does he stab me in the back, lie to the powers that be, claim my
work and ideas, wander among us, and forget who he has either stolen from or
screwed over and/or lied to. Oh my fucking God you complete sack of shit.
All I will divulge here
in this entry is that in no uncertain terms and that any friendship that may
have been pending (and there wasn’t because he is an opportunistic infantile
egomaniac) is no longer an option. I can live with that.
I do need to let you know
that we did have words. Some good ones. Choice words. And people were in
earshot. I was commended in silent by fellow employees.
As it turns out, if you
treat people the way that they treat you they seem to get offended. Go figure.
My response is “suck it up Alice”. I’m of the opinion that if you truly do not
want an honest answer to the query, then by all means, do not, for God’s sake,
do not ask me the question.
The truth hurts most
people regardless of what they tell you. Consider the source. Those three words
are extremely good advice for the party asking or answering “any” query from
anyone about anything. Consider the source.
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